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Spanking Club of New York
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If you’re like me, a tap on the ass during sex can be a turn on, but, as someone pointed out to me recently, this is a kink (aka - I can take it or leave it) and not a fetish. Those who need to incorporate corporal beatings into their sex lives view spanking as their fetish (aka - I must have it to feel happy and satisfied).
Whether you are the curious or the converted, you must attend an event organized by the Spanking Club of New York - SCONY – to truly understand and appreciate the art of spanking. As Ms. Margaret, the founder and organizer of SCONY events, explains, SCONY parties are set apart from BDSM events because spanking must be done for spanking’s sake, not as part of an overall BDSM scene. Further, there is no nudity or public sex acts at SCONY events – this is all about spanking and anything sexual must be done behind the curtains set aside for private fun.
When you arrive at a SCONY event, you will be asked if you want to be a “top” or a “bottom”. The third option is to “switch”. Based on your choice, other guests may ask you to spank them or be spanked. Switching allows you to do both. If you’re new, opt for the “top” which gives you more power. There are strict rules to this party, and women are always empowered to reject any proposal. Spanking is about consensual role play. There are different scenes to play – old-fashioned, platonic, traditional, institutional, loving, and parental spanking.
All newcomers are warmly welcomed by Ms. Margaret. Her warm demeanor and dress belie her role as a master spanker. Once you learn the rules, visit Ms. Lorraine’s table of spanking tools. From paddles in leather and wood, floggers, and all sorts of other tools, this is where you can buy your spanking toy. A very affable woman, Ms. Lorraine gave us a tutorial that had me spanking a stranger’s bare ass. And if you want to practice, there are numerous men and women who are hungry to be part of your instruction. According to Ms. Lorraine, it’s important to hit only on the fleshy part of the ass, and not on the sides or below the fleshy part where there is bone. Apparently, that would be too painful; however, whether it’s with the palm of your hand or a wood paddle, the point is to hit hard until the person on the bottom uses a code word that means stop or ease up. No one we met that night said “ease up” – it appeared that everyone likes it hard.
Check out SCONY’s website for their next event.
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