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Dear Erotic New York:

I hooked up with a man with a big dick. The first time was unplanned, so he didn't have a condom. Since he is well-endowed, he said that a lot of condom brands don't fit him. He said he really likes a Japanese brand that not only offers protection but is thin enough for him to still enjoy sex. We planned to meet again in a week, and he promised to find this Japanese brand so we could finally have sex. For reasons unknown to me, he didn't look for these condoms; instead we went to a sex shop to buy an XXX size of a brand he doesn't really like. We tried it out, but even the XXX size was too small and kept rolling off, so we didn't have sex. It's been another week since that night, and he still hasn't found the Japanese brand. Actually, he did find some Japanese condoms that he had in his apartment from several years ago, so he suggested that he wears 2 of them, just in case one breaks. I just find the whole thing very weird. Why doesn't he just go out and buy new condoms that fit?!

Justine

Dear Justine:

You're right. This is just weird. It's hard to know his motivation without more information, but I can think of a few possible reasons: 1. Does he really want to have sex with you? If the answer might be no, then stop here. If he really wants to have sex with you, then continue reading; 2. He has performance issues. Maybe he's afraid that he'll have to be a great lover, and he's not. The size of his dick is not important if he doesn't know how to use it; or 3. He's just lazy. If you like this guy, it might be worth asking him some questions to get a truthful answer. Just be careful, though; guys are very sensitive about their dicks. If all you wanted to do was fuck this guy and find this whole condom business really tedious, then find yourself a new lover who wants to have sex with you, doesn't have performance issues, and isn't lazy enough to buy condoms that fit.

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