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Dear Erotic New York:

It seems as though all my boyfriends, including my current boyfriend, want to have anal sex. We joke around about it, and I even say that if all the stars align, I will do it. This seems to give them hope. I have no moral issues with anal sex, but imagine it to be painful. What do you think?

Sandra

Dear Sandra:

Ah, the wonders of anal sex...men love it, some women like it, and other women fear it. Anything goes between two consenting adults, but make sure it's really something you want to do, them make sure you have enough lub. On the other hand, if you really don't want to do it, then state that up front. One of our sexperts' favorite openers in any sexual relationship is, "you can have all of me, except that." So, decide what you want to do, and then make your intentions known.

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