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Dear Erotic New York:

I am a 24 year-old female from a conservative family. I recently lost my virginity to a man I was dating. The relationship didn't last but it awakened my sexuality, and now I crave sex all the time. I'm in graduate school, and there are days, many days, that I can't focus in class because I imagine fucking my professor or my hot lab partner. Despite yearning for sex all the time, I hold back because my family values are traditional and forbid premarital sex. Is it possible to enjoy and want sex all the time and not be viewed as a slut by my conservative family and friends.

Anita

Dear Anita:

A person's sexuality and level of sexual activity is no one's business but their own. If you showcase your exploits, you do invite criticism into your life. So, as in all things personal, be discreet. Your parents do not have to know about your sex life and the number of partners you accumulate. "Play Hard, Play Safe" is our motto. It doesn't just extend to encouraging our readers to use a condom. "Play Safe" means doing whatever it takes to preserve your physical and mental health. Just exercise discretion and safe sex. So, dear Anita, go forth, explore your sexuality, and enjoy every minute of it! And be sure to tell us all about it. We promise not to tell your parents!

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