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We all have different goals. For example, I am only three months out of a relationship, and one of the reasons the relationship didn't work is because, at this point in my life, I need to be sexually free. So when logging into DudesHunt4Gay.com (my imaginary mass gay dating site), I'm going in pursuit of fuck buddies.

If you want to make friends, find dates, start a relationship, or invite someone to play with you and your partner, all the power to ya. We all want different things, and we are all in different positions. We're not going to relate to others in the same way.

I hold no criticism toward those who are not seeking sexual partners. I see sex as a sort of hobby...an activity some may enjoy more than others. So, if you want a boyfriend, go out there and get one (Good luck, though. We all know it's impossible to find one when you''e looking). But please, don't criticize me if that's not what I'm searching for myself.

When I was younger, I remember being the guy who made it quite clear in his personal ads that he wanted something 'serious', not 'meaningless sex'. Now, I am much older, and have clearly switched sides.

But now, I feel harshly judged by some of those on the opposite end. Some of the men who are solely seeking relationships seem to think more highly of themselvevs. Granted, there are some men out there who will take just about any dick they can get. But, in my case, and most of the cases out there, there is nothing shallow about it. I am very selective with who I sleep with, and won't have sex with someone that I simply can't stand.

So, don't call my sexual practices "shallow" or "meaningless", because I can very easily turn the argument against you. You are, after all, looking for a boyfriend on Manhunt...

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