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Happy Endings for Women
I had always considered myself "up" on the sex scene of New York - sex clubs, strange fetishes, dom/sub relationships, etc. That is, until I realized that when most men go for a massage, they're not getting their back muscles worked on. Apparently, there are massage parlors all over this city. I was clued in by an article in Time Out New York. The woman in the article wanted a happy ending and went to one of these places to get one. Her experience didn't seem to be satisfying, but the article peaked my curiosity and turned me on at the same time.
In the meantime, my mother told me about this special "spa" for women. I don't remember the name of it or what exactly they specialized in, but I do know that it led me to another website. The company (we're going to use that term very loosely) specializes in sensual massage for women swearing up and down that integrity and respect are number one and he comes right to your house. It took me a year to book the appointment.
I was nervous. Brian was running late. He seemed nice enough on the phone, very willing to answer any questions I had. He suggested that I take a shower before the massage (do we smell that bad?) and said that if I needed to relax, a glass of wine was alright, but not too much because a massage increases the affects of alcohol. He works with a lot of women who have never had an orgasm, or have only climaxed using a vibrator. His goal is always to bring them to climax without a vibrator. However, he told me that if I had a favorite toy, I could have it available.
No toy for me. Brian is being tested on his skills. I don't pay $100 for somebody to help me use a vibrator.
Brian's website warned that he's not a pretty boy, but I can't say that I was prepared for the large guy that knocked on my door. In some ways, I think that made me feel better. Besides, he was here for me. This was about me. He brought a massage table, which he set up in my bedroom, and I made him go in the other room while I undressed and laid face down. He may see me naked on the table, but I'm not there yet.
My nerves are attached to the part of my brain that runs my mouth. When I'm nervous, I talk. We chatted as he gave me the standard massage. Brian had a degree in psychology and was working on a doctoral degree. His goal is to work with women who have sexual and relationship issues. In some ways, he does this now, but he'd like to be qualified to help women work through these issues, even if its in a non-traditional way.
The anticipation was the worst part. Would he just slip fingers in? How does he start that process? What felt awkward at the beginning, began to feel like a natural part of the massage. Massags generally turns me on, so by the time he got down there, I was ready. I was also half asleep. Both as a massage therapist and a sensual massage therapist, Brian was great. I climaxed after 30 minutes, and I did feel amazing afterward. I paid him, said thank you, and sent him on his way. I didn't feel dirty for paying for a happy ending. I felt empowered.
Unfortunately, Brian has since changed his name to Hercules and moved to the west coast (he does travel, though). If you're out there, do a quick Google search, and you should find him. I recommend this type of massage for any woman who feels turned on during a regular massage, is uncomfortable with her body, has never had an orgasm, or just wants to try something new.
I called the director shortly after. He said that since I liked it so much, he would get me a double massage for my birthday.
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Blackpearl
That sounds wonderful!! I never thought of that or at least I always thought the whole "sensual massage" was a myth told by our mothers to scare us from getting massages by men. I will definitely have to research this! |
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