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I have a hard rule which has been in effect since day one of the group. I never allow anyone to come unless they have registered with us online, sent pics and been approved. This is not done to be exclusionary, although we do have relatively high standards for admission, but more so that we know who we are expecting for any number of reasons.

For starters, there are just some people out there that are trouble and enjoy bringing along their own personal drama to share with others. We are careful not to allow these people in or, if they have managed to find their way in, back. Additionally, we are aware that there are some couples that just don’t mesh well together, and we do our best to make sure that they are not there at the same time. This is all in line with our drama free policy, and it has worked exceptionally well over the years.

Once in a while we go against out better judgment and allow a couple to bring along another couple they know who have not yet registered with us. Usually it’s a last minute thing, and we generally decline the offer to add a totally unknown element to the group. Rarely, we end up saying OK, but that’s when we remember why we instituted this policy in the first place.

We were at our midtown host location which is a great space on the 25th floor of a luxury apartment building with incredible views of the city. No curtains in the living room make it a special delight for our exhibitionist couples as well as a treat for those in the apartment building across the street. The group was close to full and, by 9:15pm, there were 13 or 14 hot couples chomping at the bit, waiting to get started. I called the group to order, went through the usual introductions and got everyone going at removing each other’s clothes. Before long, there were naked bodies merging together into groups of 3,4,5 and more all around the room.

We were still expecting the one couple that I had allowed the other couple to bring along at the last minute. They said they knew them well and felt they would be a good addition to the mix. They were also running late, so we decided not to wait for them, but to get things going. It wasn’t long before people were doing what they came to do, and the beautiful sounds of sex were emanating from both bedrooms as well as the couples left in the living room. Right in front of me, there were two women sitting on each other’s laps while their male counterparts were at either side watching the girl’s hot action. Before long, the two women were bending over towards opposite sides and dishing out what appeared to be very enjoyable blowjobs to their men. I walked around and took a quick tour of the bedrooms. 3 couples in one, 5 or 6 in the other, and everyone was playing nicely and getting along just fine. It was then that the doorbell rang and the last couple arrived.

As soon as I opened the door I knew there might be an issue. I recognized the female half of the couple as the ex-partner of a guy who was part of another couple there. I also had a sense that the breakup was less then harmonious. Running this group for 10 years, I have learned a lot about keeping potential drama out of the mix. And mixing exes is something I have learned not to do unless, or until, I know them all well enough to know its OK, or I have alerted whichever couple registered first about the other one. That was not possible this time as I didn’t know who this other couple had asked to bring along.

To make a long story short, the drama was minimal but could certainly have been a lot worse. The first couple, who are semi-regular attendees, upon seeing the arrival of the second couple, opted to get dressed and leave. Interestingly enough, the catalyst was not the guy but his new partner. Be that as it may, they were adult about it and left quietly without any negative words exchanged. In fact, just prior to leaving, he said to me, ’Let’s do the right thing’ and he took his new partner over to introduce her to his ex and her partner and then headed for the door.

Rules are made to be broken, but some rules are made to be followed. More times than not when I allow that rule to be broken it never ends well. Another lesson learned, yet again.

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