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Sometimes you just get lucky and, some days, things just work out better than others. Having run this group for close to 10 years now, I have gotten used to the fact that many people answer our ads in all sorts of places with a sense of urgency that conveys a real desire to come out and explore with us. I have also gotten used to the fact that, when the buzz wears off the next morning, what looked like such a great idea at 3 or 4 AM is never going to happen.

A perfect example is an email I received from a young woman last week. The subject line was very direct. "I need some place for my sexuality." It seemed simple and straightforward enough. The rest of the email read, "I need a group to help me open up sexually. I am almost 24. I am clean and beautiful. I am an actress and am getting my masters. I am very bi-curious. I have never tried anything with a woman. I want to be dominated. I am single. These are pictures I have taken of myself. Can you please tell me more? I need to experience more. Thank you."

Unless I have reason to believe otherwise, I generally tend to believe that most are serious about a call for help such as this one, and I crafted a thoughtful response as to what I felt the group had to offer her and why this might be a wonderfully appropriate place for exploration. That was Monday night, and I followed up with a second short response on Wednesday night but, as of this writing 8 days later, there has been no response. I will keep you guys updated as to whether that ever changes.

I have one particular case where it took well over 3 years from first contact until that person finally came out to join us. In the interim, she had driven down, sat outside one of our parties and not found the courage to come inside, only to return home. That particular person is currently my partner and now lives with me and is the quintessential example of why I rarely give up on anyone unless they force me to do so.

So, with that in mind, I responded to an email this past Thursday from the male half of a young couple (they are both 23) looking to come out and join the group. I informed them that the group was meeting that night and that they were welcome to join us, and they indicated they would, in fact, be there.

From past experience, most first time couples who respond on the day of a PlayGroup, and specifically younger couples just beginning their explorations, do not show up - or, at least, not that first time. I am used to that, stopped taking it personally years ago, and never depend on them for the makeup of the group. That's why I was very pleased and more than a bit surprised when they walked through the door at the PlayGroup location that evening. They were young, attractive, friendly and were a good fit with the rest of those assembled that night/

We got started late - seems people REALLY have a problem coming out to a sex party while its still light out ;-) - and they jumped right in. In speaking with them during the social part of the evening prior to the real action starting, I could discern they were a bit apprehensive but very serious about seeing this through. Both they and the group would not be disappointed.

The game began, and the clothes came off. We had another first time single woman there, along with a bunch of returning players, and, once they were all naked, the 'groups' started forming in the large living room. Six or seven standing together on one side touching and exploring, finding their way around each others' naked bodies, four more on the couch, a few more here and there as the room filled with naked bodies all starting to heat up and get excited.

Before very long, some were heading off to the bedrooms in the back, while many stayed right in the front room where we started. The young couple worked their way around among those in the mini-group and, before long, each of them was engaged with someone else. The night continued on like that with lots of mixing and mingling, people fucking on the mattress in the middle of the living room floor, seven or eight on one of the beds in the back, and everyone was getting down and dirty with their new friends.

The group usually ends up being divided into 'rounds'. After the first 'round', many come over to the table in the kitchen/dining area for a smoke, a drink or a break. I had the chance to talk to the female half of the young couple, and the first thing she said was, "Wow, I never expected that I would fuck anyone when I came here tonight," and we ended up talking about controlling jealousy and the management of expectations in a group-sex setting. I tried to make it clear to her that no one was ever going to leave their partner because they got a 'better' blowjob from someone at the party or because some girl had nicer boobs than she did and that, in my opinion, the way you deal with it is to mentally check your relationship at the door when you walk in and pick it back up on the way out. Everything that happens while you are there is just sex and fun, and, when you go back home that night, it's your head on the pillow next to his and, hopefully, you both have big smiles on your faces from the experience. She seemed to need to hear that and was very receptive and understanding of it.

Another fun night, and we expect to see those two back, as well as the other girl who joined us alone, many times in the future.

Only time will tell.

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